The Girl’s Guide to Pegging (for all the curious ladies)

Personally, I think every girl should get to enjoy the feeling of having a glorious dick hanging down between her legs — like in my porn for women The Bitchhiker on XConfessions. And every man should get to enjoy great anal pleasure without feeling bad about it. Pegging can be an awesome way for both guy and gal to enjoy themselves. Are you curious about pegging? Here are some tips for you!

TIP # 1 - LET'S TALK ABOUT PEGGING, BABY  
A lot of guys love to have something up their butt and have no problems with asking for it, but others are a bit more shy about it. Traditional gender roles and expectations about what makes a man might make him feel a bit insecure about talking about wanting something up there… But the simple truth is that it's no more "natural" for a girl to have a dick up her butt than it is for a man.

So you may want to bring it up in a relaxed way, especially if he's insecure about it. Ensure him that the modern man doesn't have to play up to hyper-hetero ideas of sex to feel like a man - we can leave the ultra-macho ideals to those Return of Kings-guys. It's pretty badass to take something up the butt. Now, that's something that takes balls!

TIP # 2 - EASY WITH THAT FINGER, GIRL 

No one likes a hard, bent finger swirling around in circles up their butthole. Do you like to be fingerbanged hard, high-school style? I didn't think so. So don't fingerbang your boyfriend's butt hard. You might hurt him! The butt is supersensitive and doesn't need loads of friction. That's the whole idea of buttplugs, see? If he's said ok to a finger going up there, start gentle. The bottomline is (pun intended) be careful about going round and round. It's a butthole, not a jar of peanutbutter you're trying to scoop the last bit out of. And cut your nails before, please!

Introducing a little backdoor-friend might help him open up (ahem…) to the world of anal pleasure, so how about trying a bit of butt-pluggin' before wearing a strap-on? You can try this neat little plug  to get started.

TIP # 3 - GO UP THE BUTT OUT OF LOVE, NOT OUT OF SPITE  ❤️

Anal sex always has to be built on respect. I totally understand the idea of negotiation that "if you want to fuck me up the butt, I should get to fuck you up the butt, too" – but you still have to be gentle, just like you would like someone to be with you if you were taking something up the butt for the first time. So if you have a negative attitude against penetration, you might want to think twice about pegging. Don't be a dick just because you're wearing one.

TIP # 4 - LUBE IT UP

Don't get too carried away by seeing his cute little butt waiting there for your junk. Always remember the lube before knocking on his backdoor. And plenty of it! There are lubes at The Store by Erika Lust specifically designed to be used with toys, like Water Glide.

GIFs taken from the XConfessions films I Wish I Was A Lesbian and I Pegged My Boyfriend. 

TIP # 5 - SINCE YOU'RE ALREADY THERE…

Got everything you need to get pegging? If not, check out the beautiful pink leather harness at The Store by Erika Lust! Goes beautifully with the Alex Silicone Dildo from BS.

Be respectful, attentive and last but not least: have fun and enjoy yourselves!

TIP # 6 - HAPPY PEGGING!