Masturdate: I Love You and I Love Myself with Nicole & Jonte

Every May, ERIKALUST celebrates Masturbation Month, and during this month we go deeper into one of the most intimate and least talked-about aspects of couple life: solo sex as a shared practice.

Because masturbation isn't just something you do alone, for the right couples, it's one of the most connecting things they do together — a window into desire, communication and sexual wellness that deepens everything that happens between them.

We planned dates with four real couples and asked them to walk us through their relationships and how solo sex lives inside them. The result? Masturdate — four honest, explicit, and genuinely moving portraits of masturbation as intimacy.

Jonte and Nicole met on the set of Erika Lust's Ashford Manor and knew immediately — this was something. The kind of chemistry that feels less like coincidence and more like inevitability. They love masturbating together — watching each other get off, eyes locked, using their connection as the most powerful turn-on in the room.

No performance. No pretence. Just two people who genuinely, completely light each other up.