Soulsex with John & Annie: The Best is Yet to Come!

Dear Erika,

We are John and Annie and we believe there is another way to fuck. We call it ‘Soulsex’. It creates great harmony in all areas of the relationship, it brings you closer to your partner and to yourself in so many ways. If everyone had sex this way there would be no arguments, no fighting, no war! Everything is slow; each person focused on their own sensations, their body and mind. Simply doing this increases the combined pleasure and ecstasy that you experience with your partner. Soulsex doesn’t focus on a particular goal, it does not depend on an outcome such as orgasms or ejaculation. However, this does not mean that there is no orgasmic experience, in fact everything become so highly sensitive that orgasmic experiences occur with every contact, with every tender touch. There are no taboos and whatever feels good is good. It’s different every time and always deeply mindful. If everyone made love this way, they too would experience a deep intimate pleasure that creates an inseparable, natural bond. We want to share Soulsex with the whole world, we want to show them the beauty that is being created when love, lust and mind embrace.

It would be an honour if you would give us the chance to share our experience with the world. We’d love to make a film with you that shows love the slow way.

Confession by John and Annie on XConfessions.com

We want to normalise senior sex to show that older bodies are beautiful, that seniors still have their own desires and sexual urges, and that there is a different way to have sex.

Soul Sex was a very special project for me. Not only did I get to work with John & Annie who are two of the most inspiring people I have ever met, I got to shoot my first ever porn for women about sex in later-life. After this experience, I can promise you that it won’t be the last. The entire creative process of this movie was such a rewarding experience and I learned SO much I didn’t know before. I think it is so important that we start shifting our view on senior sex. All of us are going to get old at some point, hopefully. We need to stop ignoring seniors and their desires and start representing them in porn and sex education.

It was beautiful to watch John and Annie have “Soul Sex” as they call it. The actual sex scene was so beautiful and different from the many other scenes I have shot in my career. It felt like we were witnessing something very intimate and personal, and it’s clear to see that they are very in love with each other. They started with some beautiful words of intention before starting their slow and tender sex.

They spent much more time touching, cuddling, holding, and gazing at each other than performers usually would. They were also very vocal throughout and showed strong communication skills to tell each other what they were enjoying. But most of all they just seemed to be having fun, they laughed a lot and were constantly smiling at each other. It was a very beautiful, fulfilling and emotional day for everyone involved.

I hope that Soul Sex will contribute to normalising Senior Sex. I want to make seniors visible again in the public discussions about sex and pleasure and I want them to be represented in porn. People think that older bodies can’t possibly be sexy or desirable because we have been fed the message through advertising, television and films that only young bodies are attractive. It’s time we start shifting how we view senior sex.

To further contribute to normalising Senior Sex, I have asked the amazing Joan Price, book author and expert at sex at older age to collaborate with me and to write 2 expert pieces about the topic for my blog. The first one will be published tomorrow. Let’s get educated together!

In XConfessions, people from all over the world share their sexual stories and fantasies. Every month I pick two and turn them into cinematic short films. Still not a member of XConfessions? Register now! Or share your sexual fantasy, and it might become a short film.