The Fucking Playlist Takeover: Ocean van Exel

Welcome to my Fucking Playlist takeover. Each week creatives from all over the world select their favourite sexy songs for, you guessed it, fucking. These are the dirty songs you need to have sex to. This week, it's Ocean van Exel.

Ocean van Exel is a model and content creator on social media. She enjoys finding her peace and spreading to others around her, hence calling herself the neighborhood peace dealer. But she’s also very adventurous and impulsive.

1. Name:
Ocean van Exel

2. Where are you from?
I am originally from The Netherlands. However, I now live in Florida!

3. Describe your personality in 3 words:
Peaceful, adventurous, and charismatic 

4. What makes you feel sexy?
A mirror. Haha no seriously, I feel sexy dancing. It makes me feel most alive and confident. The saying dance like nobody is watching defines me.

5. What's the best concert you've ever been to (and why)?
The best concert I’ve ever been to would have to be Queen Naija. It was my first concert and an artist I loved. I resonated with her songs deeply at the time, and she killed it out there with confidence too! She was sick at the time and still performed amazingly. I had so much respect for that.

6. What's your favorite part of your body?
My favorite part of my body would have to be my curly hair. It’s big, crazy, and unique and reminds me to embrace my natural self.

7. What's your favorite time to listen to music?
I love listening to music 25/8, but if I had to pick a favorite time, I would say in the evening in the car specifically. Jamming to your favorite songs in your car, screaming your lungs out, warms my heart. Very much in the moment, a feeling that doesn’t compare. It’s like your own little concert.

8. How do you like to relax and unwind?
I love to relax and unwind my pampering myself. Self-care is so important to me. Whether that be mediating and showing love to my crystals or taking a nice bath and giving myself an at home spa day, or even just laying down and vibing to music.

9. What do you think is the most important quality in a lover/partner?
Communication. Good communication can solve almost any other problem. Without good communication, small issues can turn into lifelong resentments.

10. How do you get inspired?
I get inspired through the people around me, or the things I come across just daily through other people. There are so many creative people out there, and seeing others creating in their own crafts gets me inspired.

1. Your go-to song to get in the mood / get turned on?
How you want it - Teyana Taylor, King Combs. (I don’t think anyone could listen to this and not get in the mood.)

2. A song you have a fun/crazy sex story about?
P*$$Y Fairy (OTW) - Jhene Aiko,

3. A song that always makes you feel sexy?
Cravin (feat.G Eazy) - DaniLeigh. (The confidence that EXUDES from this song is something else.)

4. A song that you never get tired of listening to?
Are You That Somebody - Aaliyah. (I’m a big 90s-00s head so most songs in that era I could listen to forever but if I had to choose, I have to give it to my girl Aaliyah.)

5. A song that reminds you of a lover?

Good Days - SZA. (This song looks to focus on the good days presently and letting go of what had been weighing you down in the past.)

6. A song that helps you relax?
Triggered Protection Mantra - Jhene Aiko. (This may be a surprise to put on the list, but it is a meditative song. She uses various keys, tunes, and crystals all tying in with some of our chakras to help calm our mind, body, and soul.)

7. Last song you played for someone?
Overrated - Blxst. (I had to put someone on to this underrated artist.)

8. The song that best defines you?
The World Is Yours - Nas. (I believe this song brings together many pieces important to life. As much as we have our personal struggles in this life and have to fight through them and make the best of our own lives, there also comes the futures of all walks of life on this earth.)

9. A song from a concert you loved?

Easy Remix - DaniLeigh, Chris Brown. (I love DaniLeigh as an artist and this song has good vibes and makes love seem simple.)

10. Bonus songs:

Do for Love - 2 PAC. (Simply a classic that's all.)

Bestfriend (feat. Doja Cat) - Saweetie; Doja Cat. (You MUST have a song to get hype to with your best friend and this is the one!)

Like I Want You - Giveon. (A song almost everyone can relate to and his voice is just mesmerizing.)

Nights - Frank Ocean. (A song that contains The High and The Comedown, like we feel in everyday life.)

Girls Need Love (with drake) - summer walker. (My women out there know why this song was chosen.)

Go and listen to the playlist now and treat yourself to some sexy time (maybe even while you watch some porn for women on XConfessions too 😉).