Who is Delfine Dahlia?
Delfine Dahlia defines herself as "smooth as silk, cool as air", in honor of legendary pop band Blondie. She is an ethical porn performer, writer, and sex-positive educator whose work bridges pleasure, community, and reflection. As part of the XO Creators Hub, she focuses on exploring non-monogamy, sex-party culture, and the realities of navigating desire alongside others with care, awareness, and responsibility. With years immersed in Europe’s sex-positive scenes, Delfine brings insight to conversations that often remain misunderstood. Her approach centers on honesty and lived experience, unpacking jealousy, boundaries, relationship dynamics, and consent, particularly in the context of play parties and open relational structures. Whether discussing the emotional labor behind ethical non-monogamy or offering practical tools for communication, she speaks with clarity, warmth, and a welcoming tone that invites curiosity. Outside educational spaces, she channels that same spirit into nightlife, hosting some of Barcelona’s most daring underground techno gatherings through Krank. Designed for those unwilling to compromise on either sensual freedom or cutting-edge music, these intimate parties blend atmosphere, community, and exploration, echoing the themes she teaches about consent, connection, and expectation in shared erotic environments.
Watch Delfine Dahlia's ethical porn movies on ERIKALUST
You can watch Delfine in We Are Polyamorous, Lustery’s exploration of real connections and shared intimacy, where she appears representing the fluidity of relationships built on openness and trust. This film is a documentary movie with all the questions you were wondering about non-monogamous relationships and also bisexuality. She also lends her voice and experience to conversations on oral intimacy with fellow performers Kali Sudhra, Bishop Black, and Sylvan in the tutorial-style porn movie All about oral.
Location
Barcelona, Spain
