Squirtology 101

Let's dive into the topic of squirting - the splashy, yet eventful phenomenon that some may be unfamiliar with, unaware of how to induce, or even that it's possible when the right ‘buttons’ have been pressed. 💦💥 Firstly, let's clarify the meaning of squirting for those who may need a better understanding of this phenomenon. This splashy event happens during sexual arousal as a release of fluids from the Skene's glands near the urethra. The fluid can be released in varying quantities depending on the person and is usually triggered by intense pleasure, muscle contractions, and orgasms. It’s a natural bodily response and should be embraced!

There are various ways to induce this pleasurable moment on your partner - such as using hands/fingers, sex toys (dildos/vibrators)🍆🍌🍒🍑, penis and clitoral stimulation. Today we will be exploring how we can help our partners reach this level of climax with good ole fashion hands and fingers. 🤲👆

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As we all SHOULD know, the importance of communication and consent is vital - especially in this case. Always feel the room and the vibe of the interaction with your partner. If you haven’t discussed this topic in the past, then let’s take a pause.

Before inducing this form of pleasure upon your partner, it's best to clear the air with some simple but effective questions:

Have you squirted before? Have you made yourself squirt or done so with another partner? With or without penetration? What tends to work for you? What are no-goes for you? Are you comfortable with ejaculation and bodily fluids? (Surprisingly, a number of vagina owners can squirt but may feel embarrassed to do so) It may be worth a discussion beforehand to avoid any unwanted surprises! If you have previously discussed this topic or prefer the mystery road, then this guide will help prepare you for a wet one.

In order for the splashing to commence, juices aka bodily fluids NEED to be flowing. If they’re already flowing from some prior sexy time, then perfect. If you’re still on first base, then a great way to get the juices flowing and to increase the body's sensitivity is with foreplay. Sexy conversation, touching, teasing, kissing, fingering, and oral are all great entrées. If starting with fingers, start with one lubricated finger (saliva should do the trick, otherwise lube it up) to test the pleasure-pain ratio. After some feedback, feel free to add another finger or 2 to start the journey down pleasure lane. If giving oral, some may prefer solely clitoral stimulation while some may prefer a combination with finger play. It doesn’t hurt to ask! 😏👅

Just remember, a swimming pool needs water for us to go swimming; otherwise, it’s just a skate park! 🏊‍♂️🚫🛹

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Remember, reaching this level of climax may happen simultaneously with orgasm, while others may experience squirting as a separate phenomenon. Preparing the mind and body for both events work similarly. Create a comfortable and stress-free environment, find a relaxed position, let go of any prior tensions or anxieties, take a deep breath and let the waters flow. 💭💧

One position that works for most vagina owners is laying on your back or sitting legs spread, missionary style while having your partner beside you with one arm in a downward angle between your legs. It’s all about angles! 🛏️👫📐

After your partner's bodily fluids are moist to an optimal level, slide in a couple of fingers. One finger may be enough for some, but two middle fingers would usually start the party. Gently curl the fingers up towards the belly button in a ‘come here’ movement and you should then feel the ridges of the vaginal front wall. Start stroking or applying pressure to that front wall while simultaneously using your palm to caress the clitoris. Starting slow while working your way up to a faster and more intense pressure and tempo is a great way to test the waters. Variation of finger, palm movements AND finding the right angles are also key! ✌️💦🖐️

Next, ask for feedback. How’s that? Stronger? Faster? Softer? Slower? Should I stop? If all lights are green, continue that movement precisely and repeatedly until you start hearing the waterworks - climax could/should be near. To take things to the next level, you could also use your alternate hand (2-3 fingers) to massage and caress the clitoris. Find their desired combination of pressure, finger angle, depth, movement, and tempo. Don’t stop until a red light, hand cramp, or climax! 🚦💪

Important disclaimer: If you are inducing the pleasure, dirty hands and sharp fingernails may induce the opposite. Be sure to clean your hands and give your fingernails a trim before playtime, as some bodies are more sensitive than others and internal infections and/or cuts are no fun! 🚫🖐️✂️

After reaching this level of climax, it can get quite wet and messy, which may require some towels and wipes. If you can, be prepared for the mess - embrace it and make your partner feel that the mess is a beautiful and intimate moment and you’ve reached that point together. Now it’s time to celebrate! 🎉🎊🥳

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