20 Things to Put on Your Summer Sex Bucket List

Some people have a bucket list of things to do before they die, but some of us have a bucket list of sexual fantasies that we need to do… right now.

On the most part we’re not doing much travelling this summer, so to keep you occupied – and satisfied – I’ve put together a list of 20 things you need to put on your summer sex bucket list right now.

1. Public sex

Whether it’s in an empty field or a bathroom at your local bar, the riskiness of public sex makes it all the more exciting. Of course, be wary of places where you will be involving non-consenting strangers in your frisk, especially if you’re somewhere they could see or hear you.

2. Sex in water

Pool, ocean, lake, river, jacuzzi… whatever it is, sex in water is one of our favourite sexual fantasies.

Read my guide for tips on hygiene and safe sex before you get started!

3. Make a sex tape

If you’re in a trusting relationship a sex tape is a great way to have fun together. Just make sure that you speak about boundaries and how you will keep your tape private before you hit record.

4. Nature bang

Even if you’re not the outdoorsy type, get out in nature for an unforgettable romp! Find a secluded area on a hike and get down and dirty… literally.

Read my sex in the wild guide for more tips!

5. Write an erotic story

Write an erotic story with your lover & find out each other’s secret desires.

6. Nudes, nudes, nudes

Strip off and take some nudes. Maybe even make a summer scrapbook of your photos… Check out our top tips for taking a good nude here!

7. Car sex

We’ve all done it, and it’s time to do it again. Yes it can be a little cramped, but it’s always fun and full of passion!

8. Shower sex

Yes, the shower may be small and hard to navigate when you’re slipping around, but it’s so worth it to feel that cool water on your skin. Once you’re both lathered up, you’ll figure out how to make it work.

9. Skinny dipping

More water, please. Whether you go to a nudist beach or find a deserted river, strip off and jump into any body of water you can.

10. Sex in a tent

There’s nothing like the great outdoors, and being inside a tent can be the perfect place for your naughty encounters in the wild. It let’s you experience nature whilst having enough privacy to not get caught in the act.

11. Mutual masturbation

Couple’s who masturbate together, stay together. It’s too hot to touch each other anyway, so why not just watch.

12. Experiment with toys

Again, it’s too hot for sex. Get those toys out and see where you like ’em!

13. Ice, ice, baby

Run ice cubes all over your partner’s body and leave a trail of water. Or experiment with temperature play during oral, touching your partner with an ice cube in between teasing them with your tongue and mouth.

14. In the garden (or on the terrace)

Can’t get out into nature? Well, you always have your garden/terrace/balcony/rooftop – take your pick!

15. Make it last as long as possible…

Sure, there’s a time and a place for a quickie but sometimes sex should be enjoyed for as long as you want. With less of everyday life pressures in the summer, you have the time to turn off your phones and spend the whole afternoon exploring each other’s bodies.

16. Recreate your favourite movie sex scene

It doesn’t have to be porn…

17. Naked night

A whole evening as mother nature intended. Strip off, have dinner, make cocktails, see where the night takes you.

18. Truth or Dare

Remember this old favourite? Turns out it never gets old when you make it a sexy version.

19. Role play

There may not be much travel on the cards this summer, so why not role play with your partner and travel in your mind.

Air steward and passenger? Two travellers meeting in a hostel? ✔️ ✔️

20. Try a little kink

Are you fascinated by the world of kink? Why not try a little bit of bondage and experiment with tying each other up. Read my introduction to BDSM before you start!