The Lust Weekly Roundup: Why We Need Intimacy Coordinators

This is the weekly Lust news roundup: catch up on the week’s sex-tech, sex-politics, feminism, and industry news here every week.

As Black women, we're either represented as completely void of sexuality, or we're hypersexualised and objectified. It's time that changed – “Because it's not just about black dildos (although black dildos are very important too, obviously); it's about challenging the harmful stereotypes put on our community. It's about making sure no black woman ever has to feel left out of sexual spaces. It's about authentic black female sexuality.” [Glamour]

Here’s The Latest From Dakota Johnson’s Sexual Wellness Side Hustle – Maude. And, how she connected with the company’s pleasure-positive message. [British Vogue]

Books About Consent And Bodily Autonomy For Kids And Teens – “Consent, however, is not just about sexual assault but encompasses many aspects ― relationships, self-image, empathy, and responsibility.” [Huffington Post]

A new survey exposed how 97 per cent of young women in the UK have been sexually harassed. [Dazed]

What Can An On-Screen Intimacy Coordinator Teach Us About Our Own Sex Lives? And how TV series are leaving behind outdated depictions of sex & sexuality for more relatable lessons. [Elle UK]

New Series on Lust Cinema: An Interview with Performer Gia Green – A new porn for women that explores the ups and downs of life as a throuple. [Lust Zine]

Ask Lust: How Do I Introduce BDSM Into My Relationship? [Lust Zine]

Carpe Diem: A Hot Caribbean Holiday Romance on XConfessions [Lust Zine]

How To Use Nipple Clamps: A Beginners Guide [Lust Zine]

Every day I receive crowdsourced sexual confessions and fantasies that XConfessions guest directors and I turn into indie erotic films. Head to XConfessions now to confess your sexual fantasy. If your confession is chosen, you are rewarded with a one year access pass to the site and get to see your story on film.

The Happy Throuple

Ethical non-monogamy is the life for me… Anyone who cares for and loves the person I care for and love is my ally not my enemy…

My closest female companion and I have decided to cohabitate-we embody the same energy and veracious appetite for living-My male partner and twin flame is just as open and comes home earlier than expected…to witness a passionate exchange…

Her head down with half her face exposed to the late afternoon light, expresses pure ecstasy as I bury my face, open-mouthed in her round, warm backside…tongue probing…

Our dynamic is pure unadulterated euphoria…

With every pass of my tongue between her juicy lips I feel her insides quiver…

Her and I are transfixed with each other entirely so that at first we don’t notice him starring with a jovial smirk in the entry way…

My pussy starts to tingle with the subconscious knowledge of being watched…we do love an audience…

But the only thing better than two is three…

With love, The Happy Throuple

Confession by Delilah Wood

XOXO,

Erika Lust