The Fucking Playlist Takeover: Lara

Welcome to my Fucking Playlist takeover. Each week creatives from all over the world select their top songs for, you guessed it, fucking. This week, it's Lara.

Lara is an erotica writer and host of the podcast "Pussy Church." Her short form erotic stories have garnered quite the following and are published on her instagram account @talesoflara, where she matches sultry tales with photography that never reveals her identity but tells of an empowered and sexually confident feminine force.

1. Name?
Lara


2. Where are you from?
I’m a bit of a nomad but I’m mainly based in Los Angeles and Berlin.

3. Describe your personality in three words?
I. Love. Dick.
Jk- Passionate, imaginative and open-minded.

4. What makes you feel sexy?
For me feeling sexy is all about living sensually; the feeling of a silk dress on my skin, licking honey of a spoon, the ceiling fan’s breeze caressing my naked body… and electrifying looks from across the room.

5. What’s the best concert you’ve ever been to (and why)?
When I lived in Brooklyn I used to go to this hole in the wall bar where every week they’d play Flamenco. The dancing, the passion, the incredible emotions exuding through the music; I’ve never experienced anything quite like it.

6. What’s your favourite part of your body?
My heart.

7. What’s your favourite time to listen to music?
Honestly, I listen to music all day long! But if I had to choose, I’d say in the evening while I’m writing.

8. How do you like to relax and unwind?
With a glass of wine and happy endings.

9. What do you think is the most important quality in a lover/partner?
Honest communication, hands down. Plus a sense of humor! Nothing is worse than taking yourself or life too seriously.

10. How do you get inspired?
By living in the moment; listening to new music, passionate arguments with friends, a midnight walk through an ancient city, watching a stranger in the subway… anything can be inspiring if you let it touch you (this time: pun not totally intended ;)

1. Your go-to song to get in the mood / get turned on?
Lyk Dis - NxWorries, Anderson .Paak, Knxwledge

This song is basically a play-by-play of what he wants to do to you in bed. My favorite lyric:
“Who turned you on, and crawling, begging?” Pretty much how I feel anytime I listen to it…

2. A song you have a fun/crazy sex story about?
Closer - Nine Inch Nails

On my IG I asked my followers to share their favorite songs to have sex to and the most common answer was “Closer” by Nine Inch Nails. I never had sex to the song so I called the man I was seeing at the time and asked him: “Wanna have sex to the song ‘Closer’ for research purposes tonight?”
Him: “Fuck you like an animal?! Absolutely.”
We took hints from the lyrics and I must say: it’s one of the best songs I’ve had sex to. And that’s something to say.

3. A song that always makes you feel sexy?
The Valley - Miguel

Miguel arguably has one of the hottest voices out there. When he sings “pour your sins on me, let us pray,” all you wanna say is ‘Amen.’

4. A song that you never get tired of listening to?
Night Drive - Ari Lennox

I fell in love to this song. It always reminds me of smiles that tingle on your cheek, those damned butterflies and his soft skin.

5. A song that reminds you of a lover?
A Lot - 21 Savage

I wrote a poem inspired by this song after I ended a really tumultuous relationship last year, it always gets me. Here's my version:

“How many times did he lick my clit? A lot.
How many times did he kiss me in my sleep? A lot.
How many guys I got? A lot.
How many times did I wish it was him? A lot.“

6. A song that helps you relax?
Cold War - Cautious Clay 
The ultimate self-love song.

7. Last song you played for someone?
Abusey Junction - KOKOROKO

I just played this song for an incredible Italian man, while we had sex on a terrace overlooking Rome. Pure romance, pure magic.

8. The song that best defines you?
Baby Did A Bad Bad Thing - Chris Isaak

The song was on the soundtrack of the movie “Eyes Wide Shut” and the title says it all… I’m definitely a sucker (pun intended) for love, lust and guilty pleasures…

9. A song from a concert you loved?
Can’t You Hear Me Knocking - The Rolling Stones

One of my greatest fantasies is a steamy hook-up Mick Jagger in the 70’s, so when I saw them live in Brooklyn I was in absolute heaven. I know a few decades too late, but, hey- a girl can dream…

10. A bonus song of your choice - Tell us why you chose it.
All The Time - Jeremih, Lil Wayne, Natasha Mosley

This song reminds me of that moment when you feel like you’re melting into another person… drowsy, open, wet and oh so high on him. 



Bonus Songs:

Ode - Collard 
Butterfly - Kehlani 
L$D - A$AP Rocky

Go and listen to the playlist now and treat yourself to some sexy time (maybe even while you watch some porn for women on XConfessions too 😉).