How to Have Multiple Orgasms with Kenneth Play

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Do you want to know how to have multiple orgasms?

If you've ever wanted to know how to make a woman have multiple orgasms or you've wanted to know how to orgasm multiple times yourself, then look no further. We have the internationally renowned sex hacker himself, Kenneth Play, here to teach us everything he knows (which is a lot).

Despite the orgasm gap and the fact that women aren’t having as many orgasms as men in general, there is one big positive to having a vagina… the one, the only, the multiple orgasm. Women don’t have a refractory period like men do, which means we can stay aroused for longer and have multiple orgasms.

In this educational video, Kenneth will give you an introduction to multiple orgasms before an explicit (and very fun) demonstration showing you exactly how it’s done. So, watch, learn, and then go forth and practice.

Video Transcript:

Kenneth Play 0:17
Hi, my name is Kenneth Play, and I'm a sex educator, also a sex hacker. Today we're going to sex hack multiple orgasm for Erica Lust, and I'm so excited to be here with Ruby. This is her first time performing, and we're totally doing it for science, pleasure, and biology.

Kenneth Play 0:36
There are a lot of different myths or misconceptions when it comes to multiple orgasms. I want to deconstruct the whole thing for you and talk about the key distinctions you need to understand in order to have a multi-orgasmic experience.

Kenneth Play 0:51
The first thing is actually about the female brain after orgasm. Usually, for men, after we come, our brain doesn't respond the same way to continued stimulation. We have to go through a refractory period and rest. But the female brain is magical. It usually doesn’t take that long to go again. You can think of it like working out. You did one set—curls, push-ups, whatever—and you just need 30 seconds, 10 seconds, maybe two minutes of rest, and you can go again.

Kenneth Play 1:20
Another thing to keep in mind is that for some people, multiple orgasm is more of a default state. We’re still fighting the orgasm gap, and many people struggle just to have one. But in many ways, women have a greater orgasmic potential. According to research, about 47% of women have experienced multiple orgasms.

Kenneth Play 1:45
Now, I want to talk about the different kinds of multiple orgasms. You might have multiple orgasms in a single session, like a 20-minute or one-hour sexual experience. These orgasms might happen at different times. Some might be back-to-back. Others roll into one another, without fully ending, like in tantric or Daoist practices.

Kenneth Play 2:10
So today, we’re going to start by asking you, Ruby, about your experience with multiple orgasms.

Ruby 2:30
For me, when I come once, it just feels like the beginning. It doesn’t feel complete. I need to have multiple orgasms to really feel good. I love them back-to-back or with a little time in between.

Kenneth Play 2:48
When did you discover that was something your body could experience?

Ruby 2:52
I guess when I was with someone who didn’t stop after the first orgasm. They just kept going, and I realized—Jesus—it’s possible. And it felt amazing.

Kenneth Play 3:00
What kind of stimulation usually helps you reach orgasm? How do you like to be touched?

Ruby 3:07
I like to start with external touch, but I really need penetration. For me, external stimulation alone isn’t enough—I need either a combination or penetration. Especially with penetration, I can come multiple times.

Kenneth Play 3:20
Do you ever feel overly sensitive right after an orgasm—like you need to back off a bit—or do you prefer to keep going?

Ruby 3:29
It depends. It really depends on the kind of orgasm I’ve had.

Kenneth Play 3:34
Many women feel oversensitive on the clitoris after an orgasm—more so than with G-spot or anal stimulation, for example. Later in the demo, if it’s too much, just let me know. I’ll back off a bit, but we don’t have to stop completely. I can go more gently, and we can keep going.

Kenneth Play 3:56
I like to use this analogy: imagine you drive an hour to get to a perfect beach in the morning. The water’s amazing, the sun is out. You take out your surfboard, paddle out, and catch your first wave—it feels great. But then imagine deciding to go home after catching that first wave. You’ve just arrived, but you leave too soon. Instead, stay in the water. Play around. Let the next wave come. Your body brings waves of pleasure.

Kenneth Play 4:32
The key is not to pleasure-block yourself. Let your body recover, breathe into it, and go with the flow. In this video, we’ll show how to blend sensations. For example, I might start touching the external clit, then move to the G-spot, or use both. I can also use vibration, suction, or stimulate different areas like the cervix or anus.

Kenneth Play 5:25
Imagine trying multiple orgasms for the first time. Let’s say your clit is your star player—like the MVP of a soccer team. You get a first goal and feel confident. Maybe your G-spot is like a rookie player—still getting used to the game. Once the clit is ready again, it can help assist a G-spot orgasm. Later, you might bring in the cervix—it hasn’t played before, but now you’re on a roll. So you start blending various orgasms. Switching it up keeps things fresh and interesting.

Kenneth Play 6:26
Everything’s a spectrum, of course. But rotating stimulation gives a renewed feeling, which feels good to the body. I’ll use different toys and techniques and show as much communication as possible. Just let me know what feels good, if anything changes, or if you’re close to coming—let me and the audio team know.

Kenneth Play 6:52
So, if you’re ready, let’s do this. First, I want you to lay down and take a deep breath. Even though we’re on camera, the most important thing is to feel grounded in your nervous system. Don’t focus on my voice—focus entirely on your breathing.

Kenneth Play 7:22
This is a hack I often teach in my course on mindfulness. In conscious awareness, we can only experience what we’re paying attention to. Right now, Ruby needs to focus on her body. I want to help her move into her parasympathetic nervous system—rest and digest mode—where arousal can truly begin. We’ve been lovers for a little while, and I know her body pretty well. We also have a kinky dynamic, so you may see me doing some things that are arousing for her. I’m just teasing now, grounding myself, and helping her feel safe and connected.

Kenneth Play 8:10
Now, take off your top for me. Pull it up. Beautiful. Thank you. Lie down, and I’ll pull this up. Lift your butt—beautiful. During this warm-up, I’m using some warm coconut oil. I like to drizzle it like raindrops to build anticipation—it’s sexy. Close your eyes, let the world fade away, and just let me pleasure you. Today, I want you to be selfish about your pleasure. I’m starting with some grounding touch, giving her my attention, and easing into her body.

Kenneth Play 9:14
I’m not touching her genitals immediately — just teasing what’s about to happen. Sometimes I use light strokes. Right now, I’m focusing more on her whole body and using my own body as well.

Kenneth Play 9:35
That feels good?

Ruby 9:36
That feels very good.

Kenneth Play 9:41
Pressure is really grounding. Wrap your legs around me — all the way up — and hold me tight. Squeeze.

Kenneth Play 9:49
That pressure helps her feel grounded in her body. I can feel it too. Now I’m going to turn you a bit to the side. We’re going to face this way — beautiful. I’ll start teasing externally a little more to build excitement. I’ll also add a bit of spanking — some good cop, bad cop — then hold and apply grounding pressure with one hand while I play with her with the other. Sometimes, a more intense sensation wakes up the body.

Kenneth Play 10:30
Now I have some silicone lube — I call this my dipping tray. It’s one of my favorite sex acts. I’m going to apply some to the external area. At first, I want a lot of surface area contact, not going directly for the clit. Just applying pressure in a diffuse way. Sometimes I’ll focus on the clit, but I’ve made a ton of detailed tutorials for those specific techniques. Today is just a general overview. My goal is to warm her up and get her used to sensation. Later, I’ll be more precise.

Kenneth Play 11:20
There are so many variations — I can tease, apply more pressure, do what I call the sandwich. Now, if you feel the shaft of the clit… There it is, popping. Then I go a bit more direct. I love your sound. It’s so hot when you moan like that. Then I can hold her and kiss her.

Kenneth Play 12:19
Now I add more sensation by rubbing on the outside, then slow it down again. Consistency is key, but I’m not trying to make her come yet. I’m still warming her up. Rub your clit on my palm — rock your hips. It’s really nice when lovers work together. Think: “Oh, I can move too, make myself feel good.” That’s great encouragement. Now we’re both moving — dancing.

Kenneth Play 12:50
She loves penetration, so we’ll add that. I’m still using my hand. I’ve got good technique: staggered fingers. Now I’m inside her, touching her G-spot and applying light pressure on the clit with my thumb.

Kenneth Play 13:53
She’s building up nicely. Now I can switch my hand position for more G-spot pressure — palm rubbing while she rocks her hips.

Kenneth Play 14:21
To get a better position…

Kenneth Play 14:30
Switching sides real quick — I love teasing when someone’s about to come. I know, I’m being mean! But also, my hand was getting tired. And now she’s so ready, I’ll switch to my left hand. You ready?

Kenneth Play 15:22
This is actually a perfect moment to talk physics. What she loves is intense G-spot sensation. So here’s our favorite toy — it does the job biomechanically. We’re going to take her through an orgasmic journey.

Kenneth Play 15:40
Okay, tilt to the side — perfect. I’m warming up the toy. My right hand needed a break, and consistency is key when it comes to coming. Stop-and-go isn’t always fun, so let me warm this up and give her the perfect sensation.

Kenneth Play 16:13
Hold your knees up — beautiful. It’s warm, right? I use a heating pad to warm toys beforehand — great hack. Now I’m applying it and giving her the sensation she loves, but with less effort from me. The toy helps maintain consistent stimulation.

Kenneth Play 16:50
And now I’m adding her “star player” — a little vibration along with G-spot stimulation. Just maintain…

Ruby 17:06
Oh my god, I’m going to cum.

Kenneth Play 17:17
Yes — all the way, nice and loud.

Kenneth Play 17:34
Beautiful. I go lighter now, not stopping completely. Still stroking her clit slowly.

Kenneth Play 17:44
Using her natural juices, I pull the toy out and keep holding it there. No full stop. She’s staying in that ocean state. I switch up technique again with my hand, just different sensations.

Kenneth Play 18:22
Beautiful. Stay in this lovely state. We’re heading into another orgasm. Still stimulating — not too much. I’ll go for some cervix stimulation with both toys. First, you’ll feel some gentle tapping.

Kenneth Play 18:57
Okay — how does that feel? It’s a new toy, so it might feel different. Spread your legs a bit more.

Kenneth Play 19:14
Aiming for the clit here — obviously, this could mimic penetration too. It’s a renewal — building again. Doesn’t have to lead straight to orgasm. I can hear her energy dropping slightly.

Kenneth Play 19:41
Slow, deep breathing. I’m giving her a short rest. Now, back to our favorite combo. Got the lube — ready for your final one?

Ruby 19:43
Yeah.

Kenneth Play 20:00
Good — that’s your favorite, isn’t it? Yes, keep doing that. Good girl. Stay right there. Now we add intensity. She’s holding the toy so I can use both hands. That’s good, right?

Kenneth Play 20:38
Hold it — keep coming. I didn’t say stop! More. More. More.

Kenneth Play 21:00
Beautiful. Okay, breathe. Light touch now. Ten seconds. Resting, just like between workout sets.
Let’s count: 1… 2… 3… a little more pressure… 6 — feels good? 7… 8… 9… 10. Now back up to a 10 with both hands. Yeah.

Kenneth Play 21:43
Keep coming — all of it. Yes. Let the contractions happen. Slowing down now. Let go of your arm. Relax. Stay in your body — don’t manage anything.

Kenneth Play 22:13
We tried different things today. Some reliable “star players” like the G-spot and vibrator. Some secondary support. It’s a workout for me, too — I rested between sets. You stayed in your body beautifully. Thank you. I’m just going to hold her now and hug her. Pressure feels good.

Kenneth Play 23:00
Lay on top of me. Koala me. I’m just holding her, giving her pressure. I like it this way, too. She’s hot — I’m giving her some air.

Kenneth Play 23:30
So, what did we learn? In that last position, consistency was everything. My timing was a little off at the beginning, my hand got tired, but we stayed in the game. Aside from technique, what was your experience like?

Ruby 23:45
It was amazing. You just forget everything else.

Kenneth Play 23:50
What was the build-up like? I felt like at the beginning, you needed a little more.

Ruby 23:53
Yeah.

Kenneth Play 23:54
And I thought, “Okay, I started too early.” So we went back to the stimulation you liked. When we switched to that, what did it feel like?

Ruby 24:02
It just… it worked.

Kenneth Play 24:04
Good combo, right?

Ruby 24:05
Yeah, makes me come really hard.

Kenneth Play 24:07
Very hard, very strong. Did you like the switching? Or do you prefer consistency?

Ruby 24:12
I like switching it up.

Kenneth Play 24:15
What does that feel like in your body?

Ruby 24:17
It’s exciting — the change, the different sensations. It’s like a new beginning every time.

Kenneth Play 24:27
There’s something novel about it. It’s not boring. When it becomes predictable, it loses excitement. And I liked the short rest periods too. We had some back-to-back orgasms with only a 10-second break. What was that like?

Ruby 24:41
So much fun — the anticipation, like “Oh my god, it’s going to happen again!”

Kenneth Play 24:45
Exactly. It gets you ready. And I’ve been thinking about this — sex coaching is a lot like being a doula. You’re guiding someone through an intense experience. They want encouragement — “relax now,” “you’re doing great.” It keeps focus. I can also read you better now, like the veins in your neck when you get close.

Kenneth Play 25:34
Aftercare is important too, like walking someone home after an amazing ride. Don’t just leave them at the airport.

Kenneth Play 25:51
Thank you guys for watching. Hope you enjoyed this, and thank you, Erica Lust, for giving us the opportunity to do more amazing sex education.

Kenneth Play’s Sex Tutorials Aren’t Just Hot — They’re Smart

If you’ve been watching Kenneth Play tutorials, you already know his content blends science with seriously good sex. It’s explicit, yes — but it’s also incredibly instructional. You’re not just watching. You’re expanding your knowledge and leveling up in the pleasure department.

Stay in Your Body — Your Breath Is the First Turn-On

The first thing Kenneth teaches? Slow down. Drop into your breath, your body, your senses. Pleasure gets a lot louder when your nervous system isn’t in fight-or-flight. Breath keeps you connected to yourself, to your partner, and to the moment.

Don’t Rush the Good Stuff — Warm the Whole Body First

One of the sexiest things you can do is not go straight for penetration. Kenneth’s approach starts wide — think thighs, lower belly, hips, chest. That kind of touch builds anticipation, heightens sensitivity, and helps the body say a full yes before you ever get to the more obvious zones.

The Orgasm Isn’t a Full Stop — It’s a Plot Twist

A lot of people stop after the first orgasm. Kenneth doesn’t. His tutorials show you how to use that peak as a pivot — changing rhythm, location, or technique. Whether you’re moving from clit to cervix, or anal to G-spot, it’s all about riding the waves instead of shutting them down.

Combine Your Pleasure Zones — You’re Allowed to Want It All

Most of us grew up thinking sex had one or two moves. Kenneth gives you the full map — clitoral, G-spot, cervical, anal — and teaches how to play them like instruments. The magic is in mixing, layering, and experimenting. Your body is capable of so much more than a single note.

Check In — It’s Not Just Sexy, It’s Skillful

Great lovers don’t guess. They listen. Kenneth makes communication part of the turn-on — those quiet check-ins, the pause to watch a reaction, the invitation to adjust. Asking what feels good doesn’t kill the mood — it sharpens it.

Want to get to know Kenneth Play even better?

Want to get even closer to Kenneth Play’s work? You can watch him in Sex & Love in the Time of Quarantine and Tips N' Tricks for Lickin' Clits — both available exclusively on Erika Lust. Dive deeper with his full interview and exclusive behind-the-scenes photos on his adult performer profile on ERIKALUST.

Turn On. Tune In. Dive Deeper.

You’ve got the basics — now it’s time to see what’s possible. Kenneth Play’s tutorials don’t just teach technique — they open the door to a sex life that’s more creative, connected, and ridiculously hot. Want to see how it all comes together in real scenarios, with real bodies and real chemistry? Head over to ERIKALUST. It’s not porn the way you’re used to. It’s education, sexploration, and captivating erotic storytelling that turns you on while you learn.
And if you’re still eager to explore the full potential of pleasure, check out our editorial deep dives — like our guide to orgasms on ERIKALUST and our sensual breakdown of orgasmic breathing.

There’s no limit to how good it can get — and ERIKALUST is where the journey starts.