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The Fucking Playlist Takeover: Jessica Yupele

The Fucking Playlist Takeover: Jessica Yupele

Erika Lust | December 02, 2020 | 4 min. read

Welcome to my Fucking Playlist takeover. Each week creatives from all over the world select their top songs for, you guessed it, fucking. This week, it's Jessica Yupele.

Jessica Yupele is a model and self-portrait photographer, based in London, England. At a statuesque 6ft (183cm) tall, her photos frequently flit between imposing and delicate, often titillating and always interesting. Jess recently started a quarterly, online photo magazine, called "SUM" focused on darker-skinned women of colour.

The Interview

1. Name?
Jessica Yupele

2. Where are you from?
London, England

3. Describe your personality in three words?
Dedicated, caring (to a fault), solitary

4. What makes you feel sexy?
On my own: photographing myself

With a partner: good conversation, and cuddling

5. What’s the best concert you’ve ever been to (and why)?
Life goal-wise: TOOL in 2017. I never ever thought I’d get to see them live and I flew to Boise (during a week-long trip to LA) to see them. I couldn’t really believe it until I was literally there in the venue watching them with my own eyes. And even then! It was a seated concert though, and the rest of the crowd seemed so mellow. I was the only Black person I could see (venue capacity: approx.: 10,500), and I was freaking tf out!! Moshing as hard as I could, on my own :D

Experience-wise: Deftones in London, 2017. They played the best I’d ever seen them and the crowd was out of control. I was on a high for 2 days afterwards.

6. What’s your favorite part of your body?
It varies. Right now, it’s my broad shoulders.

7. What’s your favorite time to listen to music?
I don’t have a favourite time, I’m always ready. Always need music.

8. How do you like to relax and unwind?
Lately, if I get to bed early enough (i.e. not 4am), I’ll relax with Urban Exploring videos on YouTube. I’m currently working through Dan Bell’s ‘Dead Mall’ series

9. What do you think is the most important quality in a lover/partner?
Someone who not only listens but hears you too

10. How do you get inspired?
I’m very visual, so a movie or a photo/painting will usually spark something. Sometimes a piece of clothing I either have or have seen and want to photograph myself in. I’ve been known to hire a shoot space around a single piece of lingerie.

The Playlist Breakdown

1. Your go-to song to get in the mood / get turned on?
Here in My Room by Incubus

2. A song you have a fun/crazy sex story about?
Afternoon Delight by Starland Vocal Band

3. A song that always makes you feel sexy?
Keep Your Eyes Peeled by Queens of the Stone Age

4. A song that you never get tired of listening to?
Bulls On Parade by Rage Against The Machine

5. A song that reminds you of a lover?
Redbone by Childish Gambino

6. A song that helps you relax?
Back To Home by Zmeyev

7. Last song you played for someone?
Freedom Run by Kyuss

8. The song that best defines you?
Here To Stay by KoRn

9. A song from a concert you loved?
The Grudge by TOOL

10. A bonus song of your choice - Tell us why you chose it.
Star Treatment by Arctic Monkeys. It’s such a peculiar, unexpected little song. I love Arctic Monkeys because they are constantly experimenting, trying new sounds. And they never miss, in my opinion.

More bonus songs:

A first date song:
Sweet Jane by Cowboy Junkies

A first time sleeping together song:
Suffocated Love by Tricky

A making up after an argument song:
To The End by Blur

A singing together, loudly, on a sunny road trip, or in the kitchen on a rainy evening song:
You Can't Turn Me Away by Sylvia Striplin

Go and listen to the playlist now and treat yourself to some sexy time.

Erika Lust is an award-winning filmmaker, producer, and writer who's focus on female pleasure, cinematic values, and ethics in adult cinema have helped to change how pornography is consumed. Erika Lust Films was born in 2004 and since then Erika has ... Read More
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    • GFunky
      Great tunes🙌🏾🙌🏾 Thanks Jess!
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        Great tunes Jess! thanks for sharing
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        • Navjeet Dhaliwal
          How can I get previous playlists? What is track 2 on Jessica's playlist?
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            Erika Lust
            Hi Navjeet, You can see all of the songs that Jessica put in her playlist in "The Playlist Breakdown" section. Track 2 was Afternoon Delight by Starland Vocal Band. Hope you enjoy it! Thanks, Erika xoxo
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