The Fucking Playlist Takeover: Tyler the Girl

Welcome to my Fucking Playlist takeover. Each week creatives from all over the world select their top songs for, you guessed it, fucking. This week, it's Tyler the Girl.

Tyler is a photographer and videographer based in Philadelphia. She specializes in portraiture and loves working with musicians.

1. Name?
Tyler Borchardt

2. Where are you from?
Philadelphia, PA

3. Describe your personality in three words?
Tenacious, dynamic, warm

4. What makes you feel sexy?
To be honest, when I am rocking my big pants, tiny top and I’m out in public and someone gives you “the look” (you know the one) probably then does my god complex kick in and that makes me feel really sexy.

5. What’s the best concert you’ve ever been to (and why)?
Oof, so I was dating a musician a few years back and she had written a song about these jeans I owned and I flew across the country to see her perform and she brought me on stage spite having the worlds biggest stage fright I have. Seeing the person you love the most do the thing they are most passionate about in font of so many people is one of the most beautiful things on earth. Hands down best concert I have ever been to.

6. What’s your favourite part of your body?
For sure my waist, I was bullied in middle/high school often because I always had a curvier figure and as I got older I really appreciate my waist and now I don’t own one full length t shirt.

7. What’s your favourite time to listen to music?
Anytime of the day, but especially in the car. I can sing my heart out in my tin can soon wheels for hours. Something about being in the car with your music full blast makes me feel nostalgic for the past or moment not even experienced yet.

8. How do you like to relax and unwind?
I work really hard, like everyday I am working on a shoot or on set for something so the small time I have to myself to unwind is usually watching a movie that its on my very long to watch list.

9. What do you think is the most important quality in a lover/partner?
A tie between passion and good communication skills, nothing is more sexy to me than someone who is passionate about what they do but without being able to communicate we just wont work.

10. How do you get inspired?
I work with a lot of musicians, so I put myself in a vulnerable state and how their music makes me feel deep down is how I get inspired.

1. Your go-to song to get in the mood / get turned on?
Often - The Weeknd
Maybe cliché but does the job
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2. A song you have a fun/crazy sex story about?
Sex with Me - Rihanna
When I’m trying to set the mood I usually put PartyNextDoor radio on (10/10 recommend for a quick sex playlist) and this came on and I just remember it being like too ironic or corny and we both just started laughing.

3. A song that always makes you feel sexy?
Needed Me - Rihanna

4. A song that you never get tired of listening to?
White Ferrari - Frank Ocean
Basically any Frank Ocean.


5. A song that reminds you of a lover?
Heaven is a Bedroom - Tv Girl
This song really puts me back into that momentary euphoric feeling of being with a lover.

6. A song that helps you relax?
(No One Knows Me) like the Piano - Sampha


7. Last song you played for someone?
Favorite Mistake - Giveon
He deserves all the hype.

8. The song that best defines you?
Wild Women Don’t Have the Blues - Ide Cox
I didn’t love this question, I don't think there is a song that best defines me in 3 minutes. But I have these lyrics tattooed on me so this felt the most appropriate.

9. A song from a concert you loved?
Skin - Dijon
Hearing this song live I think made me feel reborn

10. A bonus song of your choice - Tell us why you chose it.
Naked - Ella Mai
I have only ever found one true romantic love in this world and this song brought be back to that moment of finding someone who loved me for everything I was and how much even when you don’t ask for it, it was something I needed and as a reminder to my new self outside of that relationship, not to settle for anyone who won’t give you that unconditional love.

Bonus Songs:
Shh… Don’t Say It - Fletcher 
Exchange, Bryson Tiller
Come and See Me - Party Next Door

Go and listen to the playlist now and treat yourself to some sexy time (maybe even while you watch some porn for women on XConfessions too 😉).