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The Lust Guide to Top Of the Line 69 Sex

The Lust Guide to Top Of the Line 69 Sex

Happy 69 Day!
Erika Lust | June 09, 2021 | 5 min. read

The Lust Guides to the XConfessions App are created to help you spice up your sex life. Perfectly paired with the XConfessions App — a game where you swipe right on your sexual fantasies to create matches with your partners — these guides are your how-tos to exploring new fantasies and kinks.

It’s June 9th, that’s the ninth day of the sixth month and the date that most closely resembles the coveted sex position 69. No matter if you’re a seasoned 69 sex specialist or looking to experience it for the first time, with this how to sex guide you’ll learn sex tips for giving and receiving pleasure at the same time.

Oh dear 69, you are so fine. Inclusive, delicious, and most of all, a sexperience that provides pleasure for all! It doesn’t matter the combination of genitalia or body size; if there’s a will, there’s a way when it comes to 69-in’. So, what does 69 mean? And what is 69 sex? This is everything you want to know about the 69 sex position and how to do it successfully and comfortably.

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What is a 69?

A 69 or 69-ing, is the sexual act of two people simultaneously giving each other oral sex. Now there’s a couple different ways of doing this, but the shape remains the same, each person curved against the other — face to groin. I’m sure by now you’ve come across people tittering any time this number pops up, or even noticed its absence from number queuing at fast-food restaurants. Finding partners who are indifferent about 69 oral sex can be rare; this position tends to be a love it or hate it kind of thing. But those that love it, do so for a reason. Although you can practice 69 sex with any partner no matter the combined genitalia or difference in body sizes, height could pose complications. If the height difference between you and your partner is too big it logistically won’t work if things don’t match up (if you know what I’m saying). But that doesn’t mean you can’t try! Crazier things have been done before, and if you and your partner are still eager to try 69 oral sex despite a height disparity, then read on!

Honestly, 69 sex has a whole lot of positives. It’s extremely intimate, mutual pleasure is the very essence of it, and the feeling of giving and receiving at the same time is an elevated experience, to say the least. But I get it, not everyone is into the idea of having to multitask during sex, because 69 oral sex is a lot of that. Trying to perform and give pleasure to your partner while also having to focus on relaxing and receiving is not exactly a walk in the park, am I right? But, it can be done and it can be undoubtedly fun 😏 It’s time to find out how to do it right so you can get to 69-ing on 6.9.

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How to do 69 sex position

Let’s start with the “classic” 69 sex position. How it works: One person lies on their back while the other goes on top, straddling their partner’s head with their knees. Remember: Groin to mouth for both parties (always) when trying to align the 69. Decide with your partner who would be best on top, and who should go on bottom. Although the classic sex position is what gives 69 a bad name (usually from people thinking it’s uncomfortable), it creates some steamy power play, and I’ve got to say I’m a fan.

For those of you who are new to 69 oral sex, there’s easier ways to start. Sometimes referred to as the “lazy” 69 sex position, this one is all about relaxing and revelling in shared pleasure with your partner. How it works: You and your partner lay down on your sides facing each other and again, groin to mouth. It’s 69 oral sex made easy and leisurely so you can focus on stimulating your partner at the same time as reaching your own big O.

Now that you’ve got the idea of how to do 69 sex position, let’s get creative with it! If you’re a fan of butt stuff, you can switch from groin-to-mouth action to butt-to-mouth. This usually works best using the classic 69 sex position. And if you’re a polyamorous lover and like to get down with three, don’t worry I haven’t forgotten about you 😏 Grab your two partners and lay side by side and form a triangle with your 3 bodies, and from there you know the drill.

69 sex videos

Are you more of a visual learner? Then you’re in luck! I’ve put together my favourite erika lust porn films on XConfessions that feature red-hot 69 oral sex.

Watch a couple enjoy 69 oral sex in their van along the Australian coast in Wanderlust and enter a sexual fantasy of men in traditional Scottish kilts in Men in Kilts and then see 69 sex and voyeurism blend in Impregnation Nation, only on XConfessions.

Erika Lust is an award-winning filmmaker, producer, and writer who's focus on female pleasure, cinematic values, and ethics in adult cinema have helped to change how pornography is consumed. Erika Lust Films was born in 2004 and since then Erika has ... Read More
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